It’s practically cliché: “Live your best life.” You find it in social media posts and magazine covers.
At the time of this writing, the hashtag #liveyourbestlife was used over two million times. However, in practice, we all know it’s easier said than done.
Even for adults with years of experience, living up to our potential and getting the best out of life is challenging. And yet we expect our children to get it right?
Whether you have stepkids or your children to coach about life, why not give them a head start? To be sure, they’re bound to like you a lot more for taking the time to pass on some wisdom.
Most importantly, these lessons will help your child live a better life in the long run. Both of you will enjoy seeing the harvest of the seeds you plant today.
Can you work these topics into a conversation in the next few weeks?
Live Your Own Best Life
Let’s start with you. You’ve probably heard children learn more from following your example than doing what you tell them to. That means your actions should prove it’s possible to live one’s best life or they’ll never trust the other life tips you give them.
You can realize some more of your potential and enjoy the results. You’ll also know what your child feels when faced with new life challenges so you can mentor with more understanding and compassion.
Help Them Handle Bullies
Bullying is another popular theme these days for all the wrong reasons. Social media and the World Wide Web have given bullies more mediums to intimidate others, and many don’t know how to handle this.
Luckily, these same mediums can bring solutions. Search for support groups in your area.
Alternatively, use online resources that teach young people about the proper use of social media platforms and how to protect themselves from those who want to take advantage of them.
Care About Their Appearance as Much as Your Own
We all know a person’s real value doesn’t depend on their looks. However, that doesn’t mean your child should ignore that factor.
Your child can quickly become the target of bullies for a minor physical defect. Once again, modern technology provides secure solutions for some of these challenges, without putting a child’s health at risk.
Getting dental crowns, straightening teeth with braces, or even treating skin imperfections can boost a child’s self-esteem. They’ll have more courage to face other challenges.
Teach Them Adult Lessons
Teaching your child the value of hard work may not be something they enjoy now, but in a few years, they’ll thank you for it. Giving them responsibilities, such as doing chores, will teach them the value of realizing rewards that come from hard work.
It will also provide them with a sense of purpose, which is vital for self-confidence.
Praise Them Correctly
Building their confidence is vital, but be careful in how you word your encouragement. Praising an achievement while focusing on the outcome can communicate a need always to outperform others.
If they don’t come out on top, they may think they’re failing. Instead, praise them for the hard work they put in or the creativity they applied. That’s something they can always be proud of.
Your child deserves a solid foundation for the future. Simple adjustments in how you raise him or her can have everlasting, positive effects.
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