If you were a teen in the 1980s or 90’s, you might remember the “Just Say No To Drugs” campaign. Even though it may have kept many teens from experimenting or becoming addicted, it didn’t deter every young person from experimenting with illicit drugs.
Today, addiction continues to be a prevalent issue across the country. Also, with the opioid crisis, it can be a scary and challenging time to raise a teenager.
As a parent, it can be difficult to know how to talk to your teen about this. Here are some tips to consider:
Have An Open Discussion About Drugs
You can tell your teen they should stay away from drugs. However, don’t leave it at that; have an open and honest discussion.
Teach your teen about how it can make you feel, why you’re concerned and your expectations regarding your teen and drug use.
After you’ve “laid it all out” give your teen a chance to share their feelings and give you feedback. Maybe they’re afraid of drugs, or perhaps they feel pressured by friends or classmates.
Also, they may have already experimented with drugs and are worried they’ll have addiction issues. This can be a helpful conversation for you and your child.
Talk About The Consequences
It may be tempting to parent with scare tactics, but scare tactics aren’t always as effective as we may think.
Stick to the facts. Here’s one to consider:
Do your research, look for facts and stories that hit home and are easy to relate to. More importantly, don’t forget to discuss the consequences of drug addiction.
Let them know about the effect on the body, relationships, academic success, jail time and other possibilities.
Discuss Experimentation Can Lead To Addiction
Many people think it’s natural for teens to experiment. However, it’s important to tell your teen that experimenting can lead to a costly and deadly addiction.
Help Your Teen Find “Thrill-Seeking” Activities
Many teens try drugs because they are looking for a “thrill,” or they’re just bored. While you can’t track your teen’s every move, you can encourage them by participating in a hobby they’ve been bugging you to try.
Has your teen wanted to try skydiving? Go with them.
Does your teen want an annual snowboarding pass? Offer to take them to the slopes.
Without drugs, anything to keep them busy and happy is a parenting win.
Tell Your Teen You Got Their Back
There’s a chance your teen will feel pressured by peers or attend a party where they feel like they can’t say “no” to drugs. Set rules about not doing drugs or attending parties where alcohol and drugs are present.
It’s also important your teen know you have their back no matter what and they can call for help or a ride any time.
This can keep them from experiencing any issue with impaired driving because they were too afraid, to be honest with their parents. Do your part and talk to your teen today.
