Dr. Carl E. Pickhardt shares his years of experience as a psychologist and offers a beneficial resource for stepfathers and bio-fathers. Keys To Successful Stepfathering will help you understand the multiple changes that affect stepfamilies.
Issues of multiple alliances, boundaries, even gender differences about stepfathers relating to stepsons and stepdaughters, and more are all included in this book which helps normalize the process of stepfamily development.
He accurately describes the developmental process of stepfamily development. And estimates a minimum of two years for step families to come together as a working unit.
The author emphasizes how stepfathers must replace wishful thinking with realistic expectations. Suggestions for getting along with stepchildren and building lasting relationships. And also how to manage conflict, establish authority, and communicate positively are included.
This will help men fully enjoy the rewards of being a stepfather. Highly recommended. To buy your copy click here.
One of the most beautiful relationships a kid cherishes is the bond with their father. However, when it comes to welcoming a new member to the family, especially letting a new father step into your life can be a challenge for some kids.
Depending on the kid, it can be difficult for them to adopt you as a stepdad. They may be afraid they can’t love you without hurting the relationship with their bio dad.
Nevertheless, it’s true kids in their nurturing ages are like water and can adopt the shape of a glass. Children grow attachments with people who show them love and affection and allow them to take part in fun and exciting activities or make them feel happy and complete.
To let them know you care for them, a stepdad needs to hold them tight, hug them affectionately and assure them they can count on you. Here are a few simple and fun ways to find a way to your kid’s heart even after being a stepdad.
