Whether it’s Valentine’s Day, an anniversary or some other special occasion you can always find information about how to treat a woman right. And while it’s important to go that extra mile on these specific days, she wants to feel special everyday of the year.
That doesn’t mean you have to spend all your money or it should feel like a chore. It just means you should create little ways to let her know how you feel about her and act on them on a regular basis. Here are some tips to follow:
Simple Touches
Sometimes, the most basic simplest touch says the most. An impromptu back rub, neck rub, foot rub or even full body rub can do wonders for her mood and the feeling you really do care. Try it when you know she’s had a long day or has a stressful situation coming up. She’ll love the physical feeling and your thoughtfulness.
Tell Her How You Really Feel
Of course, there are times when using the touch principle can get you into trouble.
You may show her with touch everyday, but most women want to hear or read real, genuine compliments coming straight from you.
It doesn’t take much to tell her how pretty she looks, how sexy her voice sounded on the phone or leave a little note telling her you love her. Be honest and don’t hold back, so she knows what’s going on up there. You don’t have to ramble non-stop, but just make it so she never has to wonder.
Remember the Beginning
If you ever find it challenging to express your inner feelings about her, take a mental trip back to the start and they’ll come back. You can use old emails, pictures, videos, letters anything that will remind you of those days, because that’s likely when all those feelings really took hold. You could also try to get the old on-line chats if you met through an online dating service.
Never Compare
Even though it’s not showing her what she means to you, never comparing her to anyone else is still worth mentioning. This practice could potentially do far more damage than any amount of compliments could ever help. She is unique, she wants to feel unique, so never compare her to someone else, especially someone else you’ve spent time with in the past.
Remember the Important Stuff
Different women have different ideas about what the “important stuff” really is, so take the time to figure out what yours means by it. To play it safe, remember important dates like birthdays and anniversaries, pay attention to her personal interests and do little things around the house she might not enjoy doing.
When you combine all these little things, she will feel appreciated, remembered, adored, up on a pedestal and never far from your inner-most thoughts. And once you get the hang of showing her in these little ways, you won’t believe how much more fulfilling your life is, and why you weren’t doing it all along!
